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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jan 12, 2022 21:51:07 GMT
"Jack (not his real name) was prepared to stay in his abusive marriage for the sake of his two children, but in the end his now ex-wife threw him out of the family home. “I had come into a large sum of money, but when that ran out she kicked me out,” he said. “I worked full-time as well and handed over almost every penny of it to her every week. I was afraid not to. But when the lump sum ran out, she wanted me gone. I didn’t want to stay in a relationship with her — it was all based on coercive control and psychological abuse. But I was prepared to stay, just for my kids. My view was, ‘I’ve made my bed, now I have to lie in it’.” More than five years have passed since the couple split, but Jack’s life has not improved. That is because he has limited access to his two children, who are both under 12. He says his ex uses them as “a weapon” to cause him further pain". More in link www.independent.ie/irish-news/i-was-so-terrified-of-my-abusive-ex-says-husband-thrown-out-of-home-41221372.html?fbclid=IwAR1n2LUlKl33O2MstOtcl5YqI5VJiWtIflXIsLVPMhvE_J_c-eob0Rtmmkw#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jan 31, 2022 16:59:08 GMT
"KEY POINTS Gender stereotypes make it difficult to view men as victims and women as perpetrators of domestic abuse. Female perpetrators tend to use different methods of abuse than men, often relying on psychological abuse and manipulation. Male victims of abuse often feel isolated, embarrassed, and emasculated, making it difficult for them to come forward." More in link www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/invisible-bruises/202112/the-difficulty-recognizing-domestic-violence-against-men?fbclid=IwAR2Fq0kGqmS-gvw4kkq5XTh9K1kRhEmKArPr_fcYXTRGWnLjZyH4z2UQZ4k#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jun 30, 2022 21:38:07 GMT
Of all the funds earmarked for domestic violence, only 1% goes to support male victims. In fact, it's the same everywhere in the world. Why are governments so ignorant of victims of male domestic violence? More in link
#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jul 4, 2022 21:38:42 GMT
#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Aug 15, 2022 21:56:07 GMT
Let us be honest that if action is taken to combat domestic violence solely on the basis of gender, male victims do not have a chance to receive help, and female perpetrators feel unpunished and take advantage of it. Unfortunately, this is the situation all over the world today and it needs to be changed. "It is not the first time the Australian prime minister has made such statements. On Nov. 26, in an opinion piece, he wrote: “While [domestic violence] is an issue for all of us, men must step up … We must hold ourselves accountable, talk about [our] behaviour, and act when we see problems.” Of course, this sort of gender determinism would never be tolerated if it was applied to all women as a collective group. But the prime minister is simply presenting domestic violence entirely as a male problem, thus placing all the blame for the problem on Australian men as a collective group. However, as political scientists Denise A. Hines and Emily M. Douglas explain, this conceptualisation of domestic violence has hampered the ability of women who abuse their male partners to seek and get help from social service and criminal justice systems". More in link www.theepochtimes.com/what-happens-to-male-victims-of-domestic-violence-when-men-become-demonised_4654583.html#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Aug 20, 2022 22:16:02 GMT
#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Aug 22, 2022 22:24:18 GMT
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Oct 10, 2022 21:53:19 GMT
Imagine what would happen if a man had hit this woman in public in the same way, while the media live by the fact that her reaction could be justified because she refused to engage him. "A man's proposal in front of the Toronto Blue Jays home crowd got an angry reaction after he used a ring pop instead of a real engagement ring". More in link www.independent.ie/videos/woman-slaps-man-for-proposing-to-her-with-ring-pop-at-packed-stadium-42039994.html#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Oct 10, 2022 21:54:07 GMT
#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Oct 27, 2022 19:26:12 GMT
Great article how thousands of institutions around the world have been overrun by feminist propaganda, which is now spreading a false narrative around the world about domestic violence contrary to research and statistics. In order to change something in this respect, first you need to change the public institutions that openly discriminate against men and deprive them of equal human rights. "A major development in the past 12 months has been the coming together of individual groups across the world broadly supporting an alternative narrative to the existing Official Narrative on domestic violence, to form an international alliance Davia, Domestic Abuse and Violence International Alliance. Many of these are men’s groups but by no means all; there are also groups concerned with parental alienation, or with shared parenting, or simply individuals who want meaningful debate and discussion, and are tired of the falsehoods being currently peddled around DV and related issues. One stirring example was the march of about 200 women to the Ministry of Women in Buenos Aires to protest about false accusations. This happened on Sept 9, Falsely Accused Day, an initiative promoted by Davia, which spawned events in other countries including Ireland. International Organisations and Bias against Men The concentration by the UN on violence against women and the complete neglect of violence against men is typical of an institutional bias. The group UN Women which is an umbrella for the colossal array of member organisations all availing of the generous handouts provided, has no parallel for any other group; men and boys don’t get a mention. Male victims ignored by UN DAW, Division for the Advancement of Women, UNIFEM, development fund for women, INSTRAW, international Research and Training Institute for the Advancement of Women, CEDAW, Convention for the Elimination of Discrimination against Women, are some of those feeding off the inexhaustible treasure dispensed by UN Women within which some 1300 gender focal points exist to address women or gender in the UN system. Well might it be said that Radicals have turned the UN into the “global headquarters of feminist missionaries” as Paul Nathanson and Katherine Young so graphically put it, authors of Legalising Misandry: From Public Shame to Systemic Discrimination against Men. Both the UN and WHO exhibit a quite explicit discrimination against men when it comes to domestic violence. Both organisations quote global figures for female victims of DV, which are regularly quoted by groups like Women’s Aid as though they applied to Ireland, (or to any individual country). When asked to quote the same figures for the case of male victims, they are unable to give any, demonstrating again that the UN and WHO don’t bother to collect any. But this kind of systemic bias is not confined to the UN; it can be found in many other international or supranational organisations such as the EU, Council of Europe, Amnesty International. EU, Council of Europe Consider the EU. It has a number of member organisations such as EIGE and EUFRA whose bias is systemic. EIGE, European Institute for Gender Equality, has carried out several studies and collected data and resources related to gender-based violence which is a priority for the EU with European directives such as the Victims’ Rights Directive (Directive 2012/29/EU) and the European Protection Order (Directive 2011/99/EU), and international legislation and initiatives such as the Istanbul Convention (Council of Europe, Convention). We have written elsewhere on this website on the colossal deception of the concept of gender-based violence, a fabrication of the radical feminist industry. The June 2019 Management Board of EIGE consisted of 19 members of whom 3 were men which demonstrates its commitment to gender equality. The FRA survey on Domestic Violence excluded men completely contrary to best practice The FRA the Fundamental Rights Agency of the EU was described by Roger Scruton as Staffed by radicals preaching the language or new religion of Rights. This was the rights body that in 2012 carried out its infamous survey on domestic and sexual violence in the then 28 EU countries: it interviewed 42,000 women, no men. Completely contrary to best practice, this shameless act of discrimination was carried out with an overarching purpose: to help install the Istanbul Convention in EU member states. It will stand into the future as an act of politicisation of the first magnitude". More in link www.mensvoicesireland.com/actions/nov-18-international-day-for-the-elimination-of-violence-against-men/#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Oct 29, 2022 21:23:10 GMT
See how women advise themselves on the forums on how to destroy a man's life. This is happening all over the world, but no one is holding them accountable !!! Why? Source: www.quora.com/I-m-pregnant-but-my-husband-doesn-t-know-that-he-is-not-the-dad-What-do-I-do/answer/Veena-V-192?comment_id=297269338&comment_type=2#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Dec 29, 2022 21:28:10 GMT
We need more local authorities like this to recognize that men are being left out of access to the same support as women. “When we talk about levelling up it really does need to be level. For three years I’ve been going on about having a male shelter. We brought male domestic support units in to talk. Nothing has changed.” More in link www.yourthurrock.com/2022/12/14/male-victims-of-domestic-violence-too-ashamed-to-come-forward-and-they-dont-get-equal-treatement-says-councillor/#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jan 7, 2023 22:00:07 GMT
Even if a male victim reports abuse, there is little chance of him being taken seriously. If all victims were treated the same, more men would report female perpetrators. "The first step to solving a problem is admitting there is one, and we need to do more to help male victims of domestic violence. Why Do Men Stay With Their Abusive Partners? Most men stay in abusive relationships because they don't understand that domestic violence is a crime. Many people are still unaware of the laws in place to protect them from abuse, especially men. This lack of awareness leaves them with no choice but to stay in the relationship. Some women may use emotional manipulation to get men to do things they don't want to do. They may also threaten their partner or their children. These actions can make it incredibly difficult for a man to leave his partner". More in link www.linkedin.com/pulse/men-victims-domestic-violence-why-dont-talk-williams-ndaba/#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jan 9, 2023 22:36:59 GMT
They continue to incorrectly state that men and boys are 1/5 victims of domestic violence when scientific research confirms that they constitute no less than 50% of all victims. "The Scottish government is developing a “national strategy on ending intimate and sexual violence against men and boys”, who are the casualties in a fifth of all domestic abuse cases. The government stressed that the largest share of funding would still go to women’s services, as they are the victims in the majority of cases, but admitted male support had been relatively underfunded". More in link www.thetimes.co.uk/article/domestic-abuse-service-overhauled-after-male-victims-bias-complaint-jz07mnh99#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jan 17, 2023 15:38:16 GMT
Discriminatory practices against male victims in Irish court have a double standard as men go to prison for the same crimes, while female perpetrators enjoy systemic impunity and can harm men. "A LIMERICK worker who claimed his wife beat him around the head with a slipper, tore off his clothes and poured hot water on his face, has had his application for a Safety Order against her refused. At a Family Law Court in Ennis today, the woman told Judge Alec Gabbett that she agreed with the allegations against her and said that she was angry after learning about her husband’s affair with another woman. Dismissing the Safety Order application, Judge Gabbett said it was a case of an unfortunate marital break-up where an affair was had. He added that the man works in Limerick and the couple are married for more than ten years with children". More in link www.limerickpost.ie/2023/01/11/limerick-worker-claimed-wife-stripped-and-assaulted-him-over-affair/#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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