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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Mar 16, 2020 18:49:50 GMT
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Nov 30, 2020 17:39:38 GMT
Only as a result treatment following divorces and separations, the deprivation of fathers of equal rights in child custody, slave child support and alimony each year takes their own lives worldwide 290,000 men with no way out of this situation. Only equal rights and equality before the law can prevent this from happening. Join us and fight the lies, false narratives that women are the most damaging, while 80 suicides are male, 75% of the homeless are male. If we add to this the harm done to fathers and children as a result of universal discrimination, the numbers rise to tens or perhaps hundreds of millions around the world. Ask the government in your country how much help goes to helping a woman and how much is helping a man. You'll be shocked at the difference.
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jun 28, 2021 18:33:37 GMT
To understand ourselves men. Different views on male problems by various professionals and scientists. Worth reading. "Psychotherapist Sue Parker Hall agrees. She is a staunch defender of what she calls traditional masculinity, in relation both to characteristics and roles. ‘For example, the APA guidelines are quite critical of such things as achieving and competing; they talk about men’s power as oppressive, whereas I would think about men’s strength, how they welcome being a supportive partner, enjoy being a dad, like being a provider, take a pride in those roles of fathering providing and protecting. That has been very attacked, particularly by radical feminist idealogues, and I think the APA guidelines have politicised it. I am only willing to say masculinity can be bad for men and women if we say femininity can be bad for women and men.’ "John Barry has reviewed the research on the differences in the types of therapy men and women prefer. There are very few, but therapists should be aware of them, he says. ‘Men seem to like support groups more than women do, probably because they are more about sharing information rather than feelings. I’d argue that what is more important than the type of therapy is how male-friendly the therapist makes it.’ This means being knowledgeable about male-typical communication styles, like banter, and male-typical experiences, such as stress response to relationship breakdown. ‘A theme that does emerge broadly from the research is that men respond well to a focus on the potential strengths of traditional masculinity, rather than its weaknesses. And good mental health isn’t just derived from therapy. Anything that gives life meaning is good for mental health,’ Barry says. ‘In my own research I’ve found that, for men, important sources of mental health are job satisfaction and relationship stability. Playing sports or being a supporter can also be good for mental health. In many ways, I think the mental health professions are behind the times when it comes to men’s mental health, and many community organisations and charities are showing us the way forward.’ He says that too often the ways men express their emotional or mental distress through behaviour are not acceptable in the counselling room and then become a matter for the criminal justice and forensic mental health systems. Instead of recognising the distress behind the behaviours, we judge and condemn the man: ‘Men tend to express their depression and trauma differently from women. It’s mirrored in how men approach therapy. They want a quick fix; they tend not to want to talk about their feelings as a way of dealing with their problems. Men also tend to stoicism and to self-medicate with alcohol and externalise their feelings in ways including aggression and violence. But we tend not to recognise these as symptoms of depression and trauma, other than in the context of PTSD in the post-conflict arena. Male depression is a more low-lying thing, and we tend to identify this as men behaving badly or aspects of toxic masculinity. And it’s a dead-end when no one recognises that their behaviour overlays their suffering. It’s a massive challenge for everybody when someone is violent; it is a massive challenge to help them. You just want them to be away from you, locked up. It’s a natural response but, as psychologists, if we want to do justice to our profession, we need to go beyond that. It’s important that we actually try to help them.’ More in link www.bacp.co.uk/bacp-journals/therapy-today/2021/julyaugust-2021/the-big-issue/?fbclid=IwAR0VvZpZlYC6_8S3yFoPdJUEtx0MR8r3JMBq8xABrFSSl1b2Y8qMqQl6BTk#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jul 15, 2021 20:20:58 GMT
A very good film based on the latest research on the trauma and stress that children experience as a result of various harmful events and their subsequent impact on their entire lives. This is especially addressed to parents who experience parental alienation and those who cause it, so that they understand the consequences of their decisions.
#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jul 24, 2021 12:32:42 GMT
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder is often caused by loss of your children, domestic abuse during separation, being falsely accused and or court. Please take the test and get support through your GP and local Domestic Abuse and Victims Support. If you wish to comment on your results with a yes or no below, it would be interesting to see how many are suffering. . More in link www.clinical-partners.co.uk/for-adults/anxiety-disorders/ptsd/ptsd-test/ptsd-test-results/results?fbclid=IwAR23u92DF54qwlvbZdnTorEKaKM6P8x3CPmMU81oTFTc1yPBIZ5QrHdVN3Y#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Sept 13, 2021 15:56:26 GMT
"As world mental health day rolls around again this year, we might wonder how much attention and funding is being allocated to the mental health issues that disproportionately impact men, and what is being done to alleviate them. However rather than innovative new interventions and programmes, we are more likely to find masculinity or patriarchy blamed for men’s mental health problems." Although the suicide rates vary across cultures, men are more likely to die by suicide than women in almost every country worldwide. The cultural differences in this ratio suggests an impact of culture on suicide, but the fact that the vast majority of countries have more male cases of suicide than female suggests a deeper influence is at play. Although male socialisation is often blamed for men’s mental health issues, it could be that male-typical ways of dealing with stress are undervalued in the prevailing mental health narrative. The fact that male suicide and substance abuse are higher in almost every country worldwide might be a clue that despite cultural differences, men internationally have different needs when it comes to dealing with distress. It could be that these sex differences have evolutionary roots, a possibility that is almost universally overlooked by the mainstream health services. By overlooking this influence, alternative interventions – based on harnessing adaptive aspects of coping mechanisms – are also overlooked. More in link malepsychology.org.uk/tag/gamma-bias/?fbclid=IwAR3RuJQl6KGCx_NS8UuHDlfifNB7f1jeNq78ufRrjePgFo_sQUVWEpLa0d0#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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