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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jun 7, 2021 19:25:54 GMT
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Dec 28, 2021 17:14:31 GMT
Stereotypes about rapes by women harm male and boy victims by depriving them of the help that female victims receive. "Among the harmful myths that abound about male sexuality, a particularly pernicious idea is that males are always ready for sex and “lucky” if a female provides an opportunity. This myth perpetuates the notion that males don’t need emotional connections and that any sex is good sex for them. We condone this thinking while we abhor anything similar with regard to the rape or coercion of women. As late as 2015, the first rape center for males anywhere in the world was opened in Sweden. We know little about psychological treatment of males who have been raped by women, largely because we have neglected to study this disenfranchised phenomenon. However, we have begun to learn that sexual coercion is traumatic regardless of gender. For those of us who have worked clinically with male victims of female perpetrators, we find that the first battle is with the social stereotypes that create shame and self-loathing in the boys and men who need emotional healing. Before addressing the traumatic effects of coerced sex, male victims struggle with lack of much-needed social support for their plight. They often find themselves being re-victimized by jokes and insults when they desperately seek compassion." More in link terratalk.medium.com/an-erection-is-not-consent-ad2fc9c11346#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jan 15, 2022 13:44:18 GMT
#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jan 15, 2022 13:51:37 GMT
Male victims are forgotten and do not receive the help they should. #men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Mar 25, 2022 11:09:49 GMT
""While much of the focus has been on the harassment and abuse of women, child sexual abuse, as Grace Tame noted in her speech, is not a gender-specific issue: one in four females and one in six males experience child sexual abuse before the age of 18. Through Survivors & Mates Support Network (SAMSN), the charity I co-founded, I have worked with adult male survivors of childhood sexual abuse for 10 years. I consistently hear of the shame and stigma that prevents men from speaking out about abuse — and from seeking help. I have listened to our supporters, who are desperate to help their loved ones, but don't know how. Male survivors are over-represented in Australia's appalling suicide statistics: the male suicide rate is three to four times higher than that of females. Men are also over-represented in our jails, psychiatric wards, rehab facilities and those sleeping rough. We cannot overestimate the role childhood trauma plays in these serious social issues. " More in link www.abc.net.au/news/2022-03-20/australia-conversation-sexual-abuse-forget-male-victim-survivors/100894416?utm_campaign=abc_news_web&utm_content=link&utm_medium=content_shared&utm_source=abc_news_web&fbclid=IwAR3no8EvDGD1aBerJUHpRKjxkwyhb660pH_hTt2SlihXpTr84o1npNdAR0E#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Aug 15, 2022 21:42:14 GMT
The man reported that he had been raped by a woman, and that this later happened beyond his imagination. Below is an excerpt: "I realized I wasn’t alone like I thought I was. A few days later I’m at work and get arrested, taken to the police station I got asked a lot of questions. Apparently after I went public with my case she said I raped her and here in Italy it’s not really believed that men can be raped by women. Eventually they let me go home after the SAPR people showed up with pictures of the bruises and cuts and scratches she had done to my torso. Which brings me to today, Legal office came and talked to me about a court case in a nearby city where I’ll have to attend on the account of sexual assault and rape as the aggressor and H as the defendant. I’m scared that the court will side with her and ruin my life even more". More in link menarehuman.com/female-rapists-weapon/#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Sept 1, 2022 10:50:54 GMT
The right to consent to sex will, for certain, only be one-sided, because women will not need the consent of men. The second issue is how to prove the consent of a woman who can always say after the fact that she did not say yes. Our advice in the name of protest against the biased law, now men should go to court, so that women in the presence of the courts give consent to sex, maybe finally politicians who pass such laws will understand the consequences for men who fear false accusations. "Spain’s lower house of Parliament passed legislation Thursday that requires sexual consent to be explicit, rather than something that can be assumed to have been given through silence or by default — in a move that could classify nonconsensual sex as rape, according to Spanish media. The bill, dubbed the “only yes means yes” law, was passed 205-141, with three abstentions. In a tweet celebrating its passage, Spain’s equality minister, Irene Montero, thanked the “feminist parliamentary majority that made it possible,” adding the hashtag #SoloSíesSí — or “only yes is yes.” More in link www.washingtonpost.com/world/2022/08/26/spain-only-yes-law-sexual-consent#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Sept 1, 2022 10:54:23 GMT
This case is very outrageous because the law ignores the notion of rape that a woman can commit. In this case, the paedophile was the mother of a two-year-old boy she raped, but she would not be held responsible, despite the evidence from the tapes. Of course, in connection with this case, no marches have been organized in Ohio against female paedophiles who, as a result of a handicap, can "legally" rape children without any consequences. If only the gender was changed, the man would be sentenced to long prison terms, while the mother was not responsible for the rape of her own child. "Miranda Smith, 30, was charged with raping her 2-year-old son in 2019 even though she did not sexually penetrate him, but had her son penetrate her. Smith pleaded no contest to multiple sexual offenses but argued that she did not technically rape her son. She did not deny that she instructed the 2-year-old to vaginally penetrate her with a sex toy and that she filmed the act and sent it to her boyfriend. She was initially sentenced to 10 years to life. According to the U.S. Department of Justice, the definition of rape is "the penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim." Justice Patrick F. Fischer wrote, "Smith argues that there was insufficient evidence to support her conviction because there is a legally significant distinction between engaging in sexual conduct with another and causing another to engage in sexual conduct. Given the plain and unambiguous statutory text, we agree." An Ohio woman's conviction of raping her 2-year-old son has been overturned following the Ohio Supreme Court's decision to narrow the definition of rape. The Ohio Supreme Court's unanimous February 2 decision determined that "although [Smith's] actions were grounds for a charge of gross sexual imposition, they technically do not constitute rape as defined by state law," according to Dan Trevas of Court News Ohio. "A conviction for rape requires evidence that the accused inserted a body part or object into another person, not that the accused compelled another to insert a body part or object into the accused." The court agreed with Smith's argument about the legal distinction, and ruled that the court could modify its judgment to reflect that Smith is guilty of gross sexual imposition without scheduling another trial. The lesser offense of gross sexual imposition could reduce Smith's sentencing". More in link www.newsweek.com/ohio-supreme-court-narrows-standard-rape-case-involving-2-year-old-1676503#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Oct 13, 2022 19:41:18 GMT
As we already know, feminists like to cultivate double standards, and this is another article on how they do it. "Blaming the “patriarchy” can and frankly should be expected to be taken as saying this is men’s fault anyway. Something that many feminists have clearly said and continue to say (men defined society therefore – where they are hurt their fault logic) Let us consider what common sense would say about who, and how gender stereotypes would be propagated. Asserting patriarchy – where mom and female teachers dominate the early years to a massive degree? If we are asserting patriarchy – in terms of power, this area is very clearly not – as it is controlled nearly exclusively by women. It is even around the notion of what a “real man” wants – when it comes to sex, is likely far more driven by what boys hear women talking about, than dad, as dad will not talk about sex with young boys, and has little open opportunity to define this". More in link evenhandedblog.wordpress.com/2022/10/05/feminists-blaming-other-for-a-feminist-narrative/#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jan 3, 2023 23:17:16 GMT
If only the genders in this video were changed, such a male actor would be finished, while Demi Moore is not the case. Where are these women's, feminist organizations? "“I love Phillip and he’s the only one I love… I love him dearly, he’s one of my most favourite people,” a 19-year-old Demi Moore says of her 15-year-old General Hospital co-star, Philip Tanzini in 1982, stroking his brown hair and looking into his eyes. In the decades-old video, which resurfaced on the internet on this week, we see what appears to be the actions of a woman who cares for her friend. Not all that dissimilar to displays of affection we see at family barbecues, engagement parties and high school graduations. But then, she kisses him. On the lips, and more than a peck. In light of the sexual assault and harassment allegations dominating Hollywood, logic tells us the exchange should feel ominous. But for some, it doesn’t. We should be outraged. It’s likely we would be if the roles were reversed. And yet for some, it feels different. But why? According to The Independent, the video footage was shot at Tanzini’s 15th birthday celebrations. Over the duration of the five-minute video, Moore and Tanzini can be seen kissing three times in between Moore’s affectionate birthday speech. By US law, a 19-year-old kissing a 15-year-old is wrong. Just as wrong as forcing a junior colleague to give you a nude massage, or exposing your private parts to an unwilling stranger". More in link www.mamamia.com.au/demi-moore-video-kissing-a-15-year-old-co-star/#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Apr 17, 2023 21:58:31 GMT
#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanright
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jun 5, 2023 21:54:24 GMT
This isn't sexual harassment, it's "funny." This is the feminist sense of humor. But if we switched genders, they would say that the man is a potential "rapist" and it wouldn't be funny. Always double standards, always hypocrites feminists. #men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Sept 18, 2023 16:58:13 GMT
When (male) Luis Rubiales kisses female Jenni Hermoso, that's a sexual assault, he should resign and be prosecuted. When (female) Jolene De’Lemos kisses rider Sean Kirrane on the mouth that's lovely. The same situation, only the genders are reversed, but the treatment is different and acceptable. Why is the protection and treatment of women different from that of men in the same situations? "Jolene De’Lemos and the irish jockey Sean Kirrane They have unleashed a new controversy on social networks, a week after the kiss of Luis Rubiales to Jennifer Hermoso, with another similar gesture in a horse race in York, England. After crossing the finish line Sean Kirrane was kissed on the mouth by Jolene De’Lemos, owner of the horse ‘Live In The Dream’, even though her husband Steve was standing to one side. The jockey reacted surprised with a smile." More in link euro.eseuro.com/trends/920907.html" MADRID, Sept 15 (Reuters) - Spain's High Court on Friday imposed a restraining order to prevent former soccer chief Luis Rubiales approaching national team player Jenni Hermoso, as he appeared in court to be investigated for sexual assault for kissing her on the lips." More in link www.reuters.com/world/europe/spains-ex-soccer-boss-rubiales-due-court-sex-assault-investigation-2023-09-14/
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jul 21, 2024 11:38:54 GMT
In any system that violates basic human rights, institutions hide facts and evidence. So does feminism, which hides and distorts evidence that women are perpetrators of violence. Here's some evidence of this: "The problem of female-perpetrated sexual abuse has long been recognized, with researchers reporting that half of sexual assaults of men are committed by females (1, 2). Reports issued during just the past week suggest the problem may be getting worse: Australia: A study published in the Journal of Interpersonal Violence documented how media accounts often downplay the severity and impact of female sexual assault (3). Netherlands: The Fier center reported that among 381 boys and young men who had been sexually abused, over 50 reported their mother, step-mother, or foster mother had been the perpetrator (4). United Kingdom: On July 4, teacher Rebecca Joynes, 30, was sentenced to six and a half years in jail for the sexual assault of two teenage boys, conceiving a baby with one of them (5). United States: Within a one-week period, two female teachers in New Jersey were arrested for the aggravated sexual assault of their male students (6). Despite these reports, Reem Alsalem of the UN Office of the High Commission for Human Rights has repeatedly hidden the problem of female-perpetrated abuse, including child sexual abuse, physical abuse of children, and intimate partner abuse." More in link endtodv.org/why-is-uns-reem-alsalem-covering-up-the-global-epidemic-of-female-abuse/#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fathermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jul 30, 2024 15:31:41 GMT
'‘I think a lot of men take sexual abuse as a dent on their masculinity – because it is such a disempowering thing to go through,’ Richard Gadd tells Men’s Health. ‘Essentially men feel the need to stay silent so as to not admit something which they might deem a weakness to their character.’ Gadd experienced this himself, but also says that once he spoke out about it, ‘it fuelled me with a strength I was not even aware I had. I no longer think that the measure of man is keeping it all bottled inside. I think true strength is admitting how scared you can be, sometimes.’ In situations where the perpetrator is a woman, this is exacerbated. It can feel uncomfortable to think about women as perpetrators, and Craig acknowledges the complexities in this. But ‘talking about female perpetrators isn’t denying male perpetrators, nor does it deny victims that are women,’ he says. Failing to address the issue just because it’s uncomfortable does a disservice to all survivors of sexual violence – we must take all of it seriously in order to take any of it seriously. More in link www.menshealth.com/uk/mental-strength/a61626390/male-survivors-sexual-abuse/
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