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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jun 21, 2022 21:46:43 GMT
Will the new Top Gun be a breakthrough and the masculinity will start showing itself again in movies as it is, and not as feminists have been trying to convince us in recent years? "Almost four decades on, Top Gun: Maverick is a brilliant celebration of modern masculinity. In this movie, men are men – and no one is apologizing for it. After what feels like decades of “man bashing”, finally, this movie feels like an appreciation of maleness by the mainstream media. A Different Kind of Masculinity Top Gun: Maverick presents its male characters on a much broader spectrum of masculinity. It is so great to finally see a box office hit that showcases all of the positive attributes of men in today’s society. The men in this movie are cast as much more realistic portrayals of masculinity, as the plot allows for demonstrations of intelligence, maturity, vulnerability, strength, deep emotion, courage and fun". More in link www.wokefather.com/egalitarianism/top-gun-maverick-masculinity-and-the-mainstream/?fbclid=IwAR2IhYotXRFWrwZtn5ojb1GKLFgYZ4-Fs0k1xGyyewrt-TfkUIntZ4GtbtM#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jul 23, 2022 21:12:52 GMT
He perfectly summed up what masculinity is needed for and the effects of its deficiencies in the modern world. www.facebook.com/jmaliktaughtme/posts/pfbid02rrYEdWRh5EzpBH6jfhx2ANP26Mq8Ywy674y62sqLSvabwbVEaPJEAurhCPyB96Fel#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Aug 22, 2022 22:14:34 GMT
True masculinity has nothing to do with what the mainstream media suggests that portray it negatively. Don't let anyone tell you that masculinity is toxic because it is a lie. "So what were the main findings of the reports? I conducted two surveys – one of 2,000 men in the UK in 2017, co-authored with journalist and campaigner Martin Daubney, and the other of 5,000 men in the US in 2018. Both surveys assessed men’s core value system and wellbeing. Both surveys found that men typically aspire to moral values such as honesty and reliability more than physical values such as fitness and being athletic. In both surveys, taking other variables into account (such as age and social class), the strongest predictor - by far - of mental positivity was job satisfaction. Also highly significant was relationship stability, which was the second strongest predictor of wellbeing in the UK sample, and fifth in the US sample. Valuing one’s health was ranked third in the UK and second in the US. There were a myriad of other findings that cast light on the factors that most predicted men’s mental wellbeing, described here. What have I learned from working on these two studies? I think there are two lessons. Firstly, if you are prepared to just ask men some simple questions of the kind that are not leading or loaded, and look without judgement at their responses, you might be surprised at what a decent bunch of people men are. And secondly, in a world where men appear to be increasingly demonised in the media, academia, and other areas of life, there are a great number of men who will react very positively when you hold up a mirror that shows a realistic image of themselves they can recognise". More in link www.centreformalepsychology.com/male-psychology-magazine-listings/most-people-know-masculinity-is-ok-and-the-harrys-masculinity-reports-confirmed-itDon't let anyone tell you that masculinity is toxic because it is a lie.
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Nov 21, 2022 22:34:38 GMT
Great article about the double standards used by feminists, which portray situations in such a way that even if women are not the majority or even a small percentage of victims, they are still the only victims or aggrieved parties according to their false message. Feminists, until they recognize that men are also victims of violence, and women are perpetrators and that everyone deserves the same support, they will still make fun of themselves and hardly credible that they want equality. "This disregard for the presumption of innocence greatly accelerated in the wake of the #metoo movement. Too often over the past five years we have seen feminist ideologues clutch at cases like Alan Dershowitz’s in an attempt to demonstrate that affluent, university-educated, Western women are actually living in an oppressive patriarchy, in which men are never held accountable for their bad behaviour. But in an interesting cultural double standard, it’s often the other way around. Men are publicly browbeaten by feminists into collectively atoning for the bad behaviour of every man who has ever done anything wrong, ever… This includes comparatively minor indiscretions, such as (to use feminists’ own terminology) creating ‘hostile working environments’ for women. However, there is no public campaign to have women atone for the toxic elements of their own behaviour; such as the workplace bullying of women by (shock horror) other women. Such an approach is inaccurate, and ideologically motivated, as among other things, it ignores the fact a reasonable chunk of FDV victims are not women. According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics (ABS), 42 per cent of victims of FDV-related homicide in 2021 were male. It also contradicts a 2019 study from the Australian Institute of Criminology, which found the great predictors for domestic violence are alcohol abuse and low socioeconomic status. The AIC study also found a tiny minority of men were responsible for a hugely disproportionate amount of domestic abuse". More in link spectator.com.au/2022/11/the-sin-of-masculinity/#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jan 12, 2023 21:51:47 GMT
The lack of male teachers in schools is the main reason that the feminization of society is progressing because children and adolescents do not have male teaching models in schools Source: #men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jan 31, 2023 19:53:12 GMT
The problem is not with masculinity, but, as the author of this article notes, with the problem of infantilization of women and their lack of responsibility. "From the myth of the gender wage gap, which is actually a motherhood penalty imposed in part by feminists themselves, to the campus rape crisis that is actually far worse off campus, feminism has become a forum mostly for the personal complaints of privileged women whose flimsy utopianism was foreshadowed by Patmore’s childlike depiction. So, for 50 years now mainstream feminism has been mostly synonymous with women’s infantilization". More in link thehill.com/opinion/education/3833165-why-i-worry-about-my-sons-maturity-not-their-masculinity/#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Feb 6, 2023 22:24:27 GMT
"However, there may be some major ethical issues in using this guidance in clinical practice. For instance, Seager and Barry (2019), argue that men are subject to a unique form of prejudice known as gamma bias. Gamma bias involves the notion that success among men is often condemned as privilege, while among women it is celebrated as an achievement. Similarly, men are often depicted as perpetuating injustice, whereas women are often portrayed as victims. This type of bias often plays down positive aspects of masculinity, whilst rejecting the notion of men as victims. In this instance, the APA’s guidance focuses almost exclusively on masculinity as a deficit. Although some credence is given to advantageous aspects of masculinity, this is often portrayed through the lens of men as beneficiaries of power and privilege. Similarly, issues such as male suicide are also ascribed to masculine gender roles, i.e. eschewal of help-seeking. This may be a clear example of gamma bias, as male strengths are attributed to privilege, whereas male deficits are attributed to the dysfunctionality of masculinity. Furthermore, the APA suggest that it is the responsibility of psychologists to challenge traditional masculine behaviour in clients. This may be an issue as this would likely discount the protective effects of masculinity in the psychology of men". More in link www.centreformalepsychology.com/male-psychology-magazine-listings/are-men-less-willing-to-engage-in-traditional-talking-therapy-because-therapy-has-been-feminised#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Feb 6, 2023 22:25:33 GMT
We will add more to Rollo Tomassi's statement. The media and politicians are more worried about 20% of female suicide victims than about 80% of male suicide victims. This basically applies to all problems. ""If women were killing themselves at 4 times the rate that men are, you would have a dedicated month and the NFL would change their uniforms to pink or something else so that we would have some sort of female suicide prevention month, but we don’t see that right now, because we blame it on toxic masculinity," he said". More in link www.foxnews.com/media/media-only-celebrates-masculinity-when-feminized-rock-tutu-dr-phil-guest#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on May 8, 2023 21:55:34 GMT
This man is right, if girls and women were demonized in the same way that boys and men are now being demonized there would be a great outrage. These are the double standards of conduct!
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Nov 2, 2023 20:59:51 GMT
Demonizing men and boys simply because of their gender has an impact on them. If only the genders were swapped there would be a public outcry, but there is none when it involves boys and men. "If we look at the language used in the Australian article, it follows a general trend in recent years of correlating ‘toxic masculinity’, a ridiculous and itself ‘toxic’ term, with being a ‘monster’. A recent study showed that “around 85% of respondents thought the term ‘toxic masculinity’ is insulting and probably harmful to boys”; which begs the question of who thought it was a good idea to use phrases like “menace of toxic masculinity" and “unhelpful forms of masculinity” More in link www.centreformalepsychology.com/male-psychology-magazine-listings/toxic-masculinity-or-toxic-journalism-reporting-on-teaching-masculinity-in-schools
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Nov 2, 2023 21:08:10 GMT
". Males are not born with a debt to society (women or the government) for which they are in any way bound (obligated) to pay. Men too readily give up their value compared to women. Men are so reduced in status that their basic needs are not even fulfilled but instead used as leverage in a very sick way/arrangement to manipulate them. Allow men to be soviergn and self-governong in their existence. Men need to denounce a masculinity that holds them to any servitude or obligations to others–e.g. women and the government, along with the male chivalrous white knight simps who work together to enslave men in their blind servitude to women. Don’t allow it." ". Males are not born with a debt to society (women or the government) for which they are in any way bound (obligated) to pay. Men too readily give up their value compared to women. Men are so reduced in status that their basic needs are not even fulfilled but instead used as leverage in a very sick way/arrangement to manipulate them. Allow men to be soviergn and self-governong in their existence. Men need to denounce a masculinity that holds them to any servitude or obligations to others–e.g. women and the government, along with the male chivalrous white knight simps who work together to enslave men in their blind servitude to women. Don’t allow it." ". Males are not born with a debt to society (women or the government) for which they are in any way bound (obligated) to pay. Men too readily give up their value compared to women. Men are so reduced in status that their basic needs are not even fulfilled but instead used as leverage in a very sick way/arrangement to manipulate them. Allow men to be soviergn and self-governong in their existence. Men need to denounce a masculinity that holds them to any servitude or obligations to others–e.g. women and the government, along with the male chivalrous white knight simps who work together to enslave men in their blind servitude to women. Don’t allow it." More in link newsofx.com/2023/10/31/a-human-masculinity-is-defined-by-ethics-and-personal-self-worth-not-might-use-servitude-and-disposability/
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Nov 21, 2023 17:02:15 GMT
Negative portrayals of men's characteristics impact their mental health. " Holding the view that masculinity negatively impacts one’s behavior is associated with lower mental well-being, according to a new study of more than 4,000 men. The findings shed light on the relationship between societal perceptions of masculinity and individual mental health, challenging previous notions that masculine attitudes are inherently harmful or detrimental. The study was published in the International Journal of Health Sciences." More in link www.psypost.org/2023/11/having-a-negative-perception-of-masculinity-is-linked-to-worse-mental-health-study-finds-214570
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Apr 23, 2024 20:56:11 GMT
A new document has been created regarding the deteriorating situation of boys and men in the UK, presenting the current social situation. "Dare to suggest that men are at crisis point however and you’ll most likely be greeted by tiny imaginary violins and sneering guffaws. “Men have been privileged for too long” they will insist or to quote Miranda Threlfall-Holmes, the Archdeacon of Liverpool, in a recent social media post, “it’s time to smash the patriarchy”. The tired old argument that you can’t have gender equality without men taking a back seat is surely the antithesis of true equality and thus intended simply to undermine any discussion about men’s wellbeing. But the facts about male underachievement and soaring suicide rates should be a wake-up call for anyone who cares about societal cohesion. Indulging in a gender tit- for-tat won’t address the broader philosophical question of how we mitigate human suffering. Surely both sexes need to be able to flourish if society itself is to flourish. And yet still successive governments appear unconcerned about the economic hardships experienced by men, especially younger white working-class men such as the ones we meet in How to be a Man." More in link www.express.co.uk/celebrity-news/1888995/danny-dyer-toxic-masculinity#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jun 8, 2024 18:27:11 GMT
Unfortunately, misandry is now common and constantly developing, which has negative effects on men. In the article, misandrists point out that women are more compassionate and do not hurt others, but this perception is completely inconsistent with the facts that women dominate in harming their own children, and are able to destroy their former partners with sophisticated skills of control and manipulation of other people. "One 31-year-old woman interviewed for that piece, who works in human resources (an industry dedicated to equity and parity) said, “When I think about having a child that’s a boy, it’s almost a repulsion, like, Oh my God, no.” Such disturbing sentiments are widespread in the U.S. and are part of a growing trend in Western cultures — popularly called Gender Disappointment. An Australian psychologist who specializes in antenatal and postnatal care conducted a Facebook survey and found that Gender Disappointment is most common in women, who unabashedly want daughters, not sons. One woman posted on a mothers’ chat board that the “vast majority” of women on “every social media (Facebook, Instagram) site or general website (Netmums, Mumsnet, Reddit)” voice this gender bias. “There are websites like ingender and genderdreaming just dedicated to Gender disappointment…some of them are straight out Boy bashing or anti boy posts.” More in link thehill.com/opinion/education/4702292-our-cultures-trashing-of-boys-and-men-is-having-toxic-consequences/
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jul 2, 2024 17:56:38 GMT
Instead of creating a narrative about toxic masculinity that has a negative impact on men, I would say adapt the system to support men, rather than trying to force them to change, making the situation even worse. The author also drew attention to the factors influencing suicide, and one of these reasons concerns discrimination against men, especially in family courts. Which ultimately negatively impacts men's health and suicide rates. "In today's social climate, boys and men are bombarded with conflicting messages. On one hand, we encourage them to express their emotions and "open up!” On the other hand, we tell them to “shut up!” and "act like a man." This contradictory messaging has contributed to the significant mental health crisis among boys and men today. The prevailing anti-male sentiment in society has played a detrimental role in exacerbating the issues. We must recognize and address the systemic and normalized discrimination against men in society, which is unjust and has a detrimental impact on them. We need to approach this issue with humility and actively work towards creating positive change with an inclusive environment that nurtures and supports everyone, including our boys and men. The concept of "toxic masculinity" has largely had negative consequences rather than positive. While some may argue that it simply refers to harmful behavior, the term has been misused and manipulated to serve various agendas, creating the perception that masculinity itself is inherently toxic. This has unfairly stigmatized men and created the false narrative that they’re inherently toxic and are in need of change. Ironically, a term that was supposedly intended to support men's mental health has actually contributed to their declining mental well-being." More in link www.eviemagazine.com/post/our-boys-and-men-are-struggling-here-s-what-needs-to-change
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