Female methods of training men and psychologist responses (by the way the most sensible).
1. I take offense at him until ... he gives in
2. I am flooding him with words - until he finally agrees
3. I sobbing for so long until he apologizes to me and ... he does what I want
4. I blackmail him to leave and wait for him to surrender
(or that there will be no sex, I will take my children, demand child support, report violence and will have to prove my innocence, what he will fail, and by the way he will be isolated for some time, and I will get a house / flat ...)
5. I compare him to other guys
6. I make small comments to him, I'm teasing until I reach my goal
This list is still short, incomplete. There are many more of these methods. Many of them are psychological violence.
And now let each person think what percentage of women use such methods. That sometimes it does not turn out that psychological violence has gender, and, strangely enough, feminists do not talk about it.
A few points about toxic ladies:
7. I twist his words, I twist the history of our relationship,
I push his views that are not there to make him excuse and upset. Always in this story, I try to show him as a bastard, a perpetrator of violence, or an idiot.
8. I humiliate him with company and in front of children
and then I say "hehe, you don't have the distance",
"What are you so sensitive about?" When he does the same - I'm offended and I return to point one. I'm getting used to him being able to attack him, he can't. He is supposed to be resistant to it, disregard his boundaries and feelings, I don't. And that's why I can torment him, I can break his boundaries, and he must apologize to me and dance when I play him.
9. I demand that he focus his attention on me, that he be subordinate to me, but I do not do it directly. It would be best if he lost friends (because they are idiots, they always get him on the wrong path), passions (because it is stupid and childish, or does not bring a lot of money). The most important thing is that I be in the spotlight. I will make various accusations, complain and cry so that he can only focus on me.
10. Put him in the mines, I make life difficult, and wait until it guess. If he does not guess (I will do it so that he does not guess) - I begin to torment him.
11. What is mine is mine, what is yours is ours. What is wrong is your fault, what is good is my merit. My tactics to make me a cause of a man's successes, make him addicted to female words, praise or criticism. His self-esteem goes down so much that he really idealizes me as a partner, and he feels for a worthless man.
12. Excitation of jealousy. They fight for me and you are nobody
you will be alone, you will not find another one as good and attractive as me, you do not deserve any, and you see - I have admirers. Try harder.
Of course there are a lot of women who don't use such manipulations, because they are undisturbed, emotionally mature, assertive and mentally healthy.
We must be careful today not to meet a woman toxic.