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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Oct 31, 2020 15:25:06 GMT
Reason, why child share custody 50/50 should by equal for children
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Nov 10, 2020 23:20:50 GMT
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Nov 10, 2020 23:24:55 GMT
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Nov 14, 2020 11:47:20 GMT
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Nov 17, 2020 17:05:32 GMT
Recent studies confirm that child share custody 50/50 is the best option for children. ''Reduced parenting time with fathers after divorce undermines children’s emotional security, because they don’t have enough daily interactions to reassure them that they matter to their fathers, finds Professor William Fabricius of Arizona State University, USA, in a paper to be published next year. Conversely, more parenting time with fathers is linked to a better father-child relationship. Most studies of shared time with parents after divorce use 65%/35% as the cutoff for considering the arrangement to be joint physical custody. But when researchers have looked at what happens when there is more sharing, ranging, for example, from 60%/40% and all the way to 50%/50%, they’ve found that higher levels of sharing are associated with fewer behavioural problems and better social skills in the child’s later life. High conflict between parents further reduces emotional security for children, introducing a fear of abandonment. Recent evidence from larger samples shows this fear is worst when children spend 25%-35% of their time with their fathers. Fear of abandonment is not as bad when they spend less than 25% of their time with their fathers, and is considerably better when they spend more than 35% and closer to 50%. This finding challenges the idea that reducing time with a parent is a cure for high-conflict situations; more sharing will benefit most children." www.childandfamilyblog.com/child-development/divorce-children-emotional-security/
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Nov 28, 2020 23:05:06 GMT
"When the law and court system automatically gives more custody to one parent over another, the children are the ones who suffer. The current Texas law has a preferred custody to give more access to the "primary parent" known as the custodial parent and visitation rights to the non-cusodial parent, usually the father. As a result, the court system "encourages and produces alienating behaviors." And, the single, most problematic issue with giving more time to one parent, is the ability of allowing that parent to alienate the other parent. This is one, and possibly the main reason, that non-custodial parents, usually the father, gets pushed out of the child's life. Edward Kruk Ph.D. who specializes in child and family policy, discusses parenting alienation and how the court system contributes to that behavior. We can eliminate parenting alienation by a 50/50 custody schedule. As Amy Baker who has has a PhD in Developmental Psychology from Teachers College of Columbia University, writes, parents who try to alienate their child from the other parent subtlely or overtly convey a three-part message to the child: I am the only parent who loves you and you need me to feel good about yourself; the other parent is dangerous and unavailable; and pursuing a relationship with the other parent jeopardizes your relationship with me. Alienating parents are themselves emotionally fragile, often enmeshed with the child, with a “sense of entitlement, needing control, knowing only how to take” (Richardson, 2006). Yet although it is easy to pathologize and blame such parents, it must be remembered that alienating behavior is encouraged in the context of a legal adversarial forum where the goal is to “win” the custody or residence of one’s child. On the matter of parental alienation, I have come to see that the problem is systemic in nature; that is, the problem lies primarily in the adversarial nature of legal determination of parenting after divorce. Parents are set up to fight in an effort to win “primary residence” or "custody" of their children, and the system tends to reward those skilled in adversarial combat. Parents often win their case by disparaging the other parent as a parent, in effect engaging in alienating behaviors, and the system thereby encourages and produces alienating behavior. A legal presumption of co-parenting, rebuttable in established cases of child abuse and family violence, may in fact be the most effective means of combating parental alienation and curtailing its damaging consequences, while at the same time protecting the safety and well-being of children at risk of abuse." equalaccesstx.com/
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Dec 8, 2020 21:39:44 GMT
Child share custody 50/50 the best children interest
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jan 19, 2021 22:05:38 GMT
There is no better solution for the best interests of children than child share custody 50/50. It's time to stop torturing children and fathers. Watching a video about the benefits of child share custody 50/50 in the link in the comment.
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on May 1, 2021 16:53:47 GMT
How important it is for the courts to let go of their prejudices because of stereotypes about childcare, because they hurt innocent people with their decisions. fb.watch/5buJyzrWXI/
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on May 27, 2021 20:43:08 GMT
After many years of fighting in the courts, Brad Pitt was awarded a joint custody yesterday. What should be default is not to the detriment of children. More in link www.tmz.com/2021/05/26/brad-pitt-angelina-jolie-joint-custody/?fbclid=IwAR01BACr3uptLMTiZwXfrzJItjj2JZcffEXgFH2N20a3XHHnZRo86X388pY#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on May 30, 2021 19:13:44 GMT
Any mother who restricts the equal contact of her children with the father harms them, therefore society should not support such behaviour and participation in harm to children. Child share custody 50/50 is the best option for children "The Case for Shared Parenting If it’s right for you, you might be surprised to hear that 50/50 parenting might have a positive outcome. When it comes to child custody, the courts and traditional thinking presume that children should be with their moms. That’s the legacy of “sexism and misunderstanding of child psychology,” says Johnson. “The norm has been for kids to stay with the mom and for dads to pay child support, leaving women dependent on men for money and dads becoming just satellite characters in their kids’ lives.” Johnson says that with 50% custody, a divorced mom could have more time and energy to put into her own financial future. Both parents have to commit to taking truly equal responsibility. “This is not just about dads exercising their rights to more time with their children, but also taking full equal responsibility for sick days, coordinating appointments and activities and all the emotional labor that women have typically taken on,” says Johnson. Financial equality between men and women is critical, and a move towards equal parenting time following a divorce could support that, experts say. Studies have found that maximizing time with both parents correlates to better physical and mental health for children. Dr. William Fabricius, an associate professor in the department of psychology at Arizona State University, began researching the impact of divorce on kids in the 1990s. One of his recent studies examining children’s post-divorce living arrangements helped to inform new child custody laws in Arizona. Only three states — Arizona, Arkansas and Kentucky — have updated their laws to explicitly say that shared parenting or joint custody is the “presumed” best scenario in a divorce. “What we found in the very first study was that when the children of divorce reached college, they were highly consistent in expressing that they thought living equal time with each parent was the best arrangement,” he said. “About 70% of the 820 students [surveyed] said equal time was best.” More in link time.com/nextadvisor/in-the-news/closing-the-gap-shared-parenting/?fbclid=IwAR10yY_MND136a-5J-QzdY1eC_jFl_Cq_Xe6wcYGj2sLV_ODONR6UiE5TRg#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jun 7, 2021 18:54:37 GMT
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jun 7, 2021 19:19:47 GMT
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jun 7, 2021 19:20:23 GMT
The example of a mother who does not want the best interests of her children because her selfishness tells her that she is all that matters. She can't come to terms with the fact that she can't use the kids to control Brad Pitt anymore. For her, the joint custody means not controlling his. "ANGELINA JOLIE has reportedly been left "bitterly disappointed" after her ex-husband Brad Pitt was awarded joint custody of their children and has allegedly said she will "never forgive him" for it." More in link www.express.co.uk/celebrity-news/1444962/angelina-jolie-brad-pitt-joint-custody-children-divorce-news-latest-update?fbclid=IwAR0GKk_SXXljCeJTWeHxID0fK4SCE4MFB6SO81DtEgREldMMfMy8X2tz8hg#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jun 18, 2021 9:59:39 GMT
#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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