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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jun 9, 2023 21:30:23 GMT
The 6th Conference on Shared Parenting after Relationship Breakups was held in Athens, Greece in May. Invariably, for several years, scientists have emphasized the need to introduce a law on equal parenthood. Details in the link. athens-2023.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/CONCLUSIONS-2023.pdf#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jul 7, 2023 20:00:02 GMT
Congratulations to Florida on a great choice. "Florida just enacted a law that creates a rebuttable presumption of equal shared parenting when parents divorce. It is the fourth U.S. State with an explicit presumption that children will continue to have the equal involvement of both of their parents when the parents divorce unless there is evidence that this is not in their best interest". More in link www.sharedparenting.org/sharedparentingnews/florida-joins-the-equal-shared-parenting-club#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Sept 4, 2023 18:31:51 GMT
Missouri Equal Parenting bill Act officially signed into law on 28.08.2023 by Missouri Governor Mike Parson. "SB 35 “adds a rebuttable presumption when determining child custody arrangements that an award of equal or approximately equal parenting time to each parent is in the best interests of the child”. This means equal or approximately equal custody will be initially presumed as the best option for a child during custody arrangements". Mark Ludwig, Founder of Americans for Equal Shared Parenting, spoke about the bill. “Children are already traumatized enough when they find out their parents are no longer together. Then, they immediately have one parent ripped out of their life who they visit every other weekend. They end up with a sense of confusion, hurt, resentment, and a void which ends up manifesting down the road as behavioral problems, drug use, violent crime, incarceration and in some cases suicide,” Ludwig said. " More in link themissouritimes.com/missouri-becomes-equal-shared-parenting-state/
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Sept 12, 2023 18:05:10 GMT
Why is it that women say one thing and do another? What do you think, write in a comment. "Currently, I have very few male clients under about age 40 that don’t do half the childcare and housework on weekends. During weekdays, their share is moderated only by how many hours they are in the house, and if they work longer hours than their wives, they often also get up earlier with kids to compensate. Unlike when I started in practice or even 5-7 years ago, I rarely speak to a man who considers childcare to be watching the kids “for his wife.” Yet, women in my virtual office, both when they are speaking to me alone and with their husband present, seem no happier now than a decade ago. Their complaints have shifted from unfair distribution of housework and childcare responsibilities to unfair distribution of emotional labor, or some other arbiter of perceived inequity. To me, this indicates that wives’ issues with their husbands can rarely be fixed by them doing more housework, and certainly that just doing more with the home and kids does not inoculate a marriage against distress. Many men have figured this out already, like these guys". More in link www.drpsychmom.com/2022/03/04/my-male-clients-are-doing-much-more-housework-and-childcare-than-a-decade-ago-and-their-wives-are-not-happier/#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Oct 16, 2023 22:00:38 GMT
Author Andrew Lancaster has compiled data based on scientific research as to why 50/50 shared parenting is superior to the current preference of courts, states and public institutions that support mothers' sole custody of children, thereby doing enormous harm to children. "The idea that children benefit from joint custody and shared parenting appears to be confirmed by research evidence. For example, studies show: Children living full-time with one parent are more stressed than children in shared custody (Stockholm University); Preschool children aged 3 to 5 in joint physical custody have fewer psychological problems than those who live mostly or only with one parent (Uppsala Universitet); and Children do better on a broad measure of wellness – covering emotional health, physical health, academic achievement and more – if their parents follow a shared parenting plan after separating (Linda Nielsen). 50:50 custody has the benefit of allowing a child to know both parents very well. Children have a deep need to connect to their mother AND father. The ill-effects of father absence have been well documented. According to Dr Edward Kruk, father absence is associated with: Insecurity and diminished self-confidence Behavioral problems Truancy and poor academic results Delinquency, youth crime and teenage pregnancy Drug and alchohol abuse." Read the entire article from the link. timtab.com/50-50-custody-benefits-why-shared-parenting-important/#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Oct 24, 2023 20:49:43 GMT
Although the Council of Europe has adopted Resolution 2079 (2015) regarding "Equality and shared parental responsibility: the role of fathers", it has not been implemented in most European countries that are members of the Council of Europe. This means that most European countries are violating the decision of the organization to which they belong and whose resolutions they have agreed to follow. Source: assembly.coe.int/nw/xml/XRef/Xref-XML2HTML-EN.asp?fileid=22220 #men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Nov 16, 2023 20:59:56 GMT
Scientists in this study confirm that children have the best health and develop the most linguistically when they are with both parents. This confirms that granting exclusive child custody to the mother is to the detriment of the children and is inconsistent with scientific knowledge. "How might a child’s network of attachment relationships have these effects? While we couldn’t assess it in our study, there are various plausible mechanisms at play. For instance, think about a child with two secure attachment relationships to both mother and father who has trust in both parents that they will be there in challenging situations". More in link www.psypost.org/2023/11/secure-attachment-to-both-parents-%E2%88%92-not-just-mothers-%E2%88%92-boosts-childrens-psychological-development-214431
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jan 1, 2024 22:04:00 GMT
In the latest book "The Two-Parent Privilege: How Americans Stopped Getting Married and Started Falling Behind" by Melissa Kearney, the author explains the negative effects of children being raised by their mothers based on data and statistics "The gist of the book will be familiar to many well-informed readers: on a wide variety of measures, the average child growing up in single-parent homes is at a disadvantage compared with their two-parent peers. On the most concrete level, single mothers have less money and time to devote to their children, and they are at higher risk of poverty and welfare dependence. On a societal level, the rise of single-parent homes has increased and entrenched both economic and social inequality. Growing up apart from a father carries considerable risks for children aside from economic hardship. Boys, in particular, are more likely to have academic and behavioral problems without their fathers in the house, and, statistically speaking, the presence of a stepfather doesn’t make their futures look any rosier. Growing up in a single-mother household is associated with poorer college completion, even after controlling for a host of other variables, as well as with diminished likelihood of marrying or staying married upon reaching adulthood." More in link www.city-journal.org/article/review-of-the-two-parent-privilege-by-melissa-kearney
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Mar 17, 2024 17:28:38 GMT
Japan wants to change the law to joint parenting and only the proven cause of domestic violence, and not the result of "a ruse" taking over parental responsibility by verifying these allegations. The very obligation to verify allegations in family courts is a revolution, because currently women in family courts are guaranteed no liability, let alone attempts to verify them for the sake of truthfulness. We will emphasize again that the very obligation to verify women's allegations in family courts is a revolution. We will be closely watching how attempts to change the law in Japan proceed. "The main victims of “parental alienation syndrome” were Japanese people, who were excluded from meeting their children after divorce – if the other partner desired this, irrespective of any court order. Accordingly, the Japanese government under Prime Minister Fumio Kishida approved an important family bill allowing joint custody. Importantly, if suspicion of child abuse or domestic violence is proven, the family court will have the power to provide sole custody to the other partner. However, this mustn’t be “a ruse” to keep the other parent at bay – it must be verified by family welfare networks, the police, schools, neighbors, and so forth before agreeing to sole custody." More in link moderntokyonews.com/2024/03/08/japan-set-to-end-parental-alienation-syndrome-joint-custody-of-children/
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Mar 26, 2024 22:54:37 GMT
Only for selected people, alternating care in France. "From September, in some areas, civil servants who look after their children on alternating residence arrangements will have an extra day off if their child is staying with them, said Gabriel Attal, the prime minister, on Sunday. "Following 20 years of campaigns to encourage shared custody of children and reduce the number of single-parent families in France, nearly half a million in the country shuttle, usually weekly, between two homes. A bill before parliament now aims to change the law to make alternating shared custody the norm for courts dealing with divorce. The French population are fans of the four-day working week - even if it means working longer hours while in the office. In a poll carried out last month, 77 per cent of working individuals said they supported the idea." More in link www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13213351/France-trials-four-day-week-divorced-parents-care-children.html
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on May 16, 2024 19:30:40 GMT
It is important for education to address this common social problem and for young people to receive adequate knowledge at school about how important both parents are to their development and upbringing. Currently, mothers and public institutions are guided solely by their interests, not the best interests of their children. One of the mothers talks about the transformation she went through when she finally realized that at the beginning she had wrongly assessed what was best for the children, guided only by her own needs. She understood that this was harming the children and the children's father. Currently, based on her personal experiences, she promotes 50/50 child share custody, emphasizing that it is the best solution for children and parents. "This emerging culture shift to 50/50 parenting norms has also been a challenge for me, a lifelong feminist and journalist, who has devoted the heart of my career to celebrating single-mother families—and started my own post-divorce journey fighting for majority time with my two children, then babies. Like many of my contemporaries, I assumed I was the superior parent because I am the mother, and misunderstood attachment theory to mean that babies only primarily bond with one adult, and that relationship should be prioritized above all others. Today, I advocate in my work and life for equal time sharing when possible if parents live apart—frequently citing research that upholds equal importance of fathers and mothers in child development, the benefits of which are maximized with equal time." More in link ifstudies.org/blog/the-case-for-5050-timesharing-when-parents-divorce
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on May 26, 2024 15:13:33 GMT
Here are 11 facts that explain that 50/50 child share custody is in the best interests of children, and any other decisions are to their detriment. 1. Kids’ outcomes are the same as those who grow up with two married parents. 2. Outcomes improve the closer to 50/50 the schedule is. 3.Single dads are more engaged fathers in shared parenting schedules. 4. Single moms with equal parenting earn more than those with sole or majority-time schedules. 5. Communities where equal parenting is the norm experience lower rates of child abuse. 6. 50/50 parenting laws are correlated with lower rates of domestic violence 7. Equal parenting is correlated with lower conflict between the parents. 8. Equal parenting benefits persist even when parents do not choose the schedule themselves. 9. Equal parenting does not compromise either parent’s bond with the child. 10. Equal parenting benefits apply to infants, babies and toddlers — including overnights. 11. 50/50 laws for divorced families means more gender equality in married couples. Detailed description of each point in the link below based on statistics and scientific research" www.wealthysinglemommy.com/equal-parenting-facts/
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jun 14, 2024 12:29:14 GMT
It's well said that women who don't want to share 50/50 equal care are selfish. At least Jennie Garth was honest about it, but she didn't want to hurt her own children and shared 50/50 custody with her ex from the very beginning. Unfortunately, many women choose a different path and are responsible for harming their own children. “I know for me, there were times when I really emotionally regretted that decision and not fighting harder for more.,” she shares. “But at the same time, I knew that having them be 50% of their time with you, their father, was absolutely the best thing for them.” Garth continues, “And, whatever I was dealing with, you know, that part of me that wanted to have them more was just me being selfish and thinking about myself, because it hurts so bad when they would leave.” Facinelli also reveals he struggled with the idea of a 50/50 split." More in link people.com/jennie-garth-initially-emotionally-regretted-not-fighting-more-custody-kids-ex-peter-facinelli-8659091#men #women #equal #father #discriminationmen #discrimination #segregation #falseaccusations #domesticviolence #childsupport #equalparenting #parentalalienation #divorce #fraud #falseaccusationsrape #fatherless #childsharecustody #fahtermatter #law #brokenlaw #familylaw #court #depression, #depressionafterdivorce #Divorce #effectsofdivorce #health #masculinity #mentalhealth #suicidal #suicide #equalpay #equalwork #menrights #humanrights
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Jul 20, 2024 16:03:55 GMT
Our congratulations to Professor William Fabricius for his outstanding achievements. "Q: Can you summarize your research findings about the importance of parenting time on the parent-child relationship and effects on the child’s physical and mental health? A: In over 35 publications to date, I have worked with many colleagues and students to test the what, when, how and why of the effects of equal parenting time. We use multiple methods in different populations, including 400 ethnically diverse families whom we recruited from the community in a 10-year longitudinal study funded by the National Institutes of Health, and in different family contexts, including high parent conflict, domestic violence, children under 3 years of age, children separated by custodial parent relocation from the other parent and court-ordered shared parenting. The correlational findings consistently replicate and support the hypothesis that equal parenting time protects the security of children’s relationships with both parents. Our current study uses social science methods that can provide real-world evidence of causality comparable to controlled experimental evidence. Across all 10 years of our longitudinal study, the results show that year-to-year changes in the amount of parenting time with the father lead to parallel changes in subsequent years to the child’s security in the father-child relationship. When I linked our findings to the broader public health literature, which shows the harmful effect of insecure parent-child relationships on long-term mental and stress-related physical health, it became clear that translating equal parenting time research into family law was more than a matter of legal policy. It was a matter of public health." More in link news.asu.edu/20240603-science-and-technology-asu-psychologist-wins-lifetime-achievement-award-shared-parenting
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Post by Stopsegregationofmen on Aug 3, 2024 20:12:15 GMT
Japan will introduce a joint custody law from 2026, but there is no protection for victims of false accusations who will lose such rights as a result. Unfortunately, nothing has been done to protect victims of false accusations by creating a law to combat them. Women will continue to abuse this during child custody proceedings. "The revision, the first to custody rights in nearly 80 years, is to take effect by 2026. It will allow divorced parents to choose either dual or single custody while requiring them to cooperate in ensuring their children’s rights and wellbeing. " Of course they left the door open to abuse from the mothers side, because fathers of victims of domestic violence will not be taken into account, but only women without checking the truth of the allegations. Earlier declarations for the bill before it was passed, it was written that each accusation would be verified before they make a decision. After the bill was passed, there is nothing about it. "In cases in which domestic violence or abuse by either parent is suspected, the other person will have sole custody, according to the revision." More in link apnews.com/article/japan-child-custody-law-revision-9ddb15431470294dae180b5c9e3d9282
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